The Attitude in Relationship
When I go started out learning how to meet sugar babies, I remember that I had a reckon midland like,
“I’m afraid to just walk up to a terra incognita sugar baby and start talk.
”I horizon of all kinds of things that could go unfitting.
“What if she has a boyfriend nearby who easily gets jealous and wants to beat me up?”
“What if she says something that puts me down and makes me feel bad?”
“What if she says something to someone else about me existence a failure because I tried to talk to her?”
All of these different ideas conjunctive inside of me to give me a general fear of meeting sugar babies.
I’ve since learned that none of my worst fears would come true when meeting a new sugar baby. I’ve met hundreds and hundreds of sugar babies over the last few years– and none (NONE!) have reacted or caused anything to detect that I couldn’t address in the moment.
In the process I realized something very important: No tactic works on every sugar baby. Some sugar babies are not interested in meeting someone right now.
Some sugar babies are lesbians and have no interest in sugar daddies.
Some sugar babies are happily married or in a relationship and don’t want to meet someone new right now.
Some sugar babies are angry.
Some are cold.
My guessing is that in a random group of 100 sugar babies, only about 30 of them might be open to meeting someone new right now (in a romantic sense).
What this means is that 70 AREN’T interested in meeting someone new.
And of the 30 who are interested in meeting someone new, maybe only 15 are nice, friendly, happy people. Do you see where I’m going?
If you want to be successful at meeting sugar babies, you have to understand that many of the sugar babies you talk to aren’t interested. Most people take things like this PERSONALLY. rather of just moving on to the next sugar baby, they get all jittery and feel bad about it. I’ve now learned a better way.
I also learned something else that helped me dramatically.
I learned that sugar babies are used to being approached, flirted with, and picked up on in general by sugar daddies. Even sugar babies who are what you might call ‘average’ are approached by sugar daddies on a pretty regular cornerstone. So when you’re about to approach a sugar baby, keep in mind that it’s not like you’re going to try something that she’s never heard of before and shock her.
You may not be all conceivable comfortable yet just walk up to any sugar baby, but she’ll be relatively OK with it.
And remember, if she’s not interested, it’s most likely that she’s not interested in anyone right now. Of course it’s true that she might not be interested in your ‘type’ or you may have acted in a way that she didn’t like, but the fact is that no matter what happens, you’ll find that it’sno big deal.
Just move on dear Sugar Daddy.